While at work minding my business, our song comes on…I listen to it for a moment and consider if when he hears it does he think of me too? Instantly reality hits me, and I remember when he attempted to choke me. He changed his mind for some reason that day. Yet weeks later sucessfully back hand slapped my bottom lip wide open to the white meat!

My coworker,  John looks over to see if I am ok, he knew that was our song. I throw it up, and he replies, “Let’s get back to making this paper girl!”


Yes, this is a new year, but once an abusive monster, ALWAYS an abusive monster. Sadly many women have been victimized by “man-child” mates. If you are a survivor, please volunteer NCADV volunteer. If you are a victim, please get help NATIONAL COALITION AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE GET HELP HERE!

Remaining silent doesn’t benefit you, it may be only a matter of time before his blows turn lethal. Here is a recent victims story. MAN MURDERS GIRLFRIEND AND HIMSELF They are hard lessons to learn, yet examples left for others. Pray to Our Father for strength to escape.

Malachi 2:16
“For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.”

Remind me why your opinions counts?


If you spend your life trying to gain approval of others, you will be exhausted! I see people trying desperately to gain the approval of others. Eventually they begin to mirror one another.

I look for inspirational people to share my thoughts and time with. Planners, builders, and global minded leaders. As my mentor Dr Myles Munroe poignantly said, “Poor people talk about money, wealthy people talk about ideals.” While you may be planning to buy a house a wealthy minded individual is configuring how to buy the block, and turn it into a shopping plaza with a sub division in the back.

Why, because he or she has enlarged there territory. If you sit amongst spade players and throw cards for fun, you may develop a pass time mentality. Put down the joker and pick up a spade. Even if you can’t afford to change your environment. You can always change it inside a great book. Read, learn, grow, and pass time gaining wisdom. There will be times when a game of spades sounds fun. Yet doing so on your personal yacht versus federal prison sounds better, don’t ya think?16266237_1302672873088920_974292793181002270_n

Proverbs 13:20 KJV He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.

Kiss him and then smear it N


The hardest part about love is the fear of having it smeared N your face afterward. Being vulnerable and happy one moment, followed by shame and insult. When we listen to love songs it doesn’t end this way. They scream N2 the mic how they love you and would die without you. They tell you that the love they have for you will last forever. The next month your trying to figure out who the heck this person is?

The smear campaign begins and you begin to wonder how low is he going to go? Well dolls, be still and allow Daddy YEShua to fight the battle. My EX HASbeeN did the same and carried on various conversations with random people regarding what a horrible wife I was, and only Lord knows what else. I sat silent, meanwhile I drank tea and I wrote. I journaled the entire time and not all of it is about his stupidity, but the art of love. Also the pain of being lied on and having your integrity challenged. I felt as if I arrived to an interview, filled out an application, did a background check, had past experience and knowledge of my position. Only to find the day I showed up to work Lucifer was the owner of the business. Well the rest begins N Poetic Just – Us, followed by two volumes entitled: Kingston 1 and Kingston 2 – Volume 1 releases on Feb 24, my birthDAY!

Well, Lucifer may have owned the business, but my Daddy owns the KINGDOM –

I will be thinking of my Ex-each time I cash my royalties checks -Reversed the curse! #back2sender


Chastity Chyld Incorporated IS ON KINDLE SMILES — at Chastity Chyld Incorporated.


Get em from the front and back end! Lov The Black Ballerina

God where is my husband…Finale

Sometimes God wants you to figure out the rest. The studio became undone as I was bringing it home. However, I believe you get the theory, and I will refer to the concept as we go forward in our tutelages.

On another note, I was on periscope today and I hit a hot topic. Check it out and likewise join me over there. Periscope @chastitychyld My followers are adorable and if I were you, I would add me up – pronto!

YT – You raising her children, but not your own!!

Next week we are going to discuss a term I created called “Healing N Motion” – This is the reason why I believe so many women are continually looking for DADDY – I agree and I am likewise N that state, yet I chose my King and Savior to fill the role. Thank you Daddy YEShua for raising, keeping and HEALing me, continually. Your little,

Black Ballerina,


Chastity Chyld


When your staring at your media and wondering, why… The times when I needed you, where were you? This will be an upcoming topic on #kettlesonbeloveds. Lets’s be wise dudes – dudettes, it is rarely because they became overwhelmed with endearment, love, and concern for you. The mindset of an oppurtunist is never shielded from the wise. If that person has a false motive you will know.

The best measuring tool, again seaSONal, if you recently acquired something that they may want, expect a phone call. If they have an urgent need that you may or may NOT be able to fill, expect a phone call. If they want to vent about someone they have no business dating, but your non judgmental, yet wise, expect a phone call, when the end of the road appears before them and they wake up to reality, you will get a call.

As we love them we want to know when to answer the line. In all honesty this is a difficult revelation. Yet, it is the only way to deal with opportunist. What you do is call them when you need them, but be certain you are able to grease there palms simultaneously or you may never get the need met.

We have all been there before 2017 will change a number on the dial of life. Yet, lessons learned never fail to reveal who someone is and what they want. Rarely, it’s to add value and if it is be certain to check for the underlining plot.

Matthew 7:6
Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.


Clearly we all have them, I miscarried for the third time N June. My period went to sleep and she woke up yesterday. I must say 7 months later we required reintroduction. If you would like to hear about the preceding facts that led to a total of three miscarriages https://www.amazon.com/dp/1520433263/ref=sr_1_cc_1?s=aps&ie=UTF8&qid=1485189488&sr=1-1-catcorr&keywords=just+-+us+chastity+chyld

Was that a plug #girlsatheart – You dang right! Read about the Narcissist and learn how and why to avoid them like a plague. Kingston, my series is N publishing to be released on my birthday Feb 24 – this will be volume one of the Kingstonian novels written on the island of Jamaica, WI under a balmy sun and steamy nights. #depositsLIPS #shhhhh

A friend of mine, well she use to be until we had a conversation of truth. Years ago she was dating a married man with a pregnant wife. I told her to leave him alone at least until after they gave birth. She hated me for it and literally packed up moved in with him and never spoke to me again. Some years later I found her on social media, needless to say they never made it and she still won’t forgive. I still check on her websites and make sure she is doing well as she suffers with sickle cell anemia.

All this to say, the body is sensitive to it’s requirements, if allowed. When I miscarried my body knew when to restart my cycle, utilizing amenorrhea as a prevention method to prevent any further pregnancies. Thank you God for an awesome functioning hypothalamus and a Queenship with you.

3 John 2 (KJV)

2 Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.

Club Outfit vs Daily Outfit

Yes, they vary and can immediately change the image the man whom could be your type has regarding you. This is difficult to discern when young and enjoying the adventures of youth, yet at a certain age we must bear better judgements. Do not be misunderstood #girlsatheART love feeling sexy, sophisticated, and approachable by a fun exciting, well cultured and groomed man. However, we want you to be able to smell a dog before he poops on you reputation, goals, and health if he has fleas.

Unfortunately, we girls have the potential to attract some of these deginerats by our body language, clothing, and character. If your heart wants to be loved, we must be certain it is protected by Royal Light, only rendered by our Royal King. Father YEShua, did not lay down HIS life for us to take off our crowns, lay it on a dresser of some random dude or dudette who you followed home from a club. Only to be woken by a real angry girl/man banging on the door. You frantically gather your belongings to race out, leaving your precious Crown.

Unfortunately, Cinderella was at a dance when she lost her Manolo, and a KING returned it. Do you get the REVELATION of where I am going here…

REVELATION 3:11 Behold, I come quickly: hold that fast which thou hast, that no man take thy crown

Keep company with fellow Kingdom Citizens and do not be afraid to let go of random minded individuals, you have different goals, values, and KINGdoms.