When your staring at your media and wondering, why… The times when I needed you, where were you? This will be an upcoming topic on #kettlesonbeloveds. Lets’s be wise dudes – dudettes, it is rarely because they became overwhelmed with endearment, love, and concern for you. The mindset of an oppurtunist is never shielded from the wise. If that person has a false motive you will know.
The best measuring tool, again seaSONal, if you recently acquired something that they may want, expect a phone call. If they have an urgent need that you may or may NOT be able to fill, expect a phone call. If they want to vent about someone they have no business dating, but your non judgmental, yet wise, expect a phone call, when the end of the road appears before them and they wake up to reality, you will get a call.
As we love them we want to know when to answer the line. In all honesty this is a difficult revelation. Yet, it is the only way to deal with opportunist. What you do is call them when you need them, but be certain you are able to grease there palms simultaneously or you may never get the need met.
We have all been there before 2017 will change a number on the dial of life. Yet, lessons learned never fail to reveal who someone is and what they want. Rarely, it’s to add value and if it is be certain to check for the underlining plot.
Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.