So you met him at age 29. At age 47 you 2 finally jump the broom. One of you, because it was long overdue. The other, because of continual threats to be left and forced to pay child support. After the wedding, life remains the same. With three kids, poor finances, and years of foggy memories you both felt it best to stick together.
In public you look composed, but at home you live separate lives. After dealing with years of disgrace and shame you have lost your glow. He clearly has another woman and maybe another child as well. You spend your rare, spare time sniffing his dirty laundry and scanning his banking account statements.
Facing homelessness, child support, and financial ruin he stays. You are his correction officer and he a prisoner of love and hate. You finally wake up one morning and admit “I’m tired!” Holding his dirty lipstick stained t-shirt you angrily wipe your tears. You look in the mirror and see a bitter woman who has wasted her youth, time, and energy.
Do not be misled by social media pictures and statuses. Many of these “marriages” were NOT KINGDOM decisions they were contracted by a cord of TWO, tied together by sex and lust. #soulties
Not “GRAFTED TOGETHER by the King of Love, #YEShua….”
Ecclesiastes 4:12 (KJV)
12 And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
A threefold union doesn’t wear easily because it is constructed by our King. 2 commited servants HE deems equal, faithful, and trustworthy become partners. HE presents her to him, then gifts him to her.
If someone doesn’t honor the Kings Laws why do you feel they will honor yours. Are you greater than Our Lord and HIS Kingdom? The Kingdom decides who belong together for The Kingdom works. In the Kingdom of love its never personal, its always business. We must be about our Fathers business. If you focus on HIS Kingdom and it’s RIGHTeousness all the other needs will fall N place, trust me girls! Love Northern Reign
Luke 2:49 (KJV)
49 And he said unto them, How is it that ye sought me? wist ye not that I must be about my Father’s business?